Group Leader Training
This training is for those who want to support family members in their growing process. It provides basic skills for group leading and is as well a basic training for becoming a family educator and counsellor.

Support Groups
There are 3 ways to support families to develop their hearts and relationships: Family education, counselling and support groups. Education provides understanding, support groups aid to practice it and counselling helps specifically in special cases.

Support groups provide a conducive environment to work on one's personal development. It creates an atmosphere where we feel free to reflect deeply on ourselves and receive loving support. That allows us to get in contact with our inner emotional reality, experience a healing process and get in deep contact with our heart.

Content of the Training

• The interaction of heart, intellect, emotion and will
• Deal with feelings properly and understand the emotional healing process
• How to utilise the healing power of the group
• The role and tasks of the group leader
• Initiating support groups

Competencies and Skills for Group Leading

• Intervention in order to protect the group dynamic
• Active Listening
• Selective Reflection
• Guiding the development process through questions

Methods of the Training:

• Lectures
• Self-experience of the group dynamic
• Communication Exercises
• Experience yourself as leader of a small group, reflect on it and develop your group leader ability

Settlement Age Lectures
(7 day course or 3 times 2 days)

• Chapter 1: Four Realms of Heart etc.
• Chapter 2: Supplement of the Fall
• Chapter 3-7: Restoration course 1945 until today

(Rev. Sudo's compilation of True Father's Seminars 1993-1995 in Cheju island to 30000 sisters and 10000 brothers from Japan. Father's explanation of Divine Principle.)

Change of our Mindset and our Mission in Cheon Il Guk (CIG)
1 day course (6 hours)

Change of Blood Lineage

• Change of blood lineage in history
• Change of blood lineage through the blessing (1st gen., 2nd gen...)

True Fathers Life

Lectures for Harp- and Carp-Workshops
according to the topics of the workshop

Divine Principle Lectures
(2, 7, 21 days)

Recommendation
Read the following books:

• A Bald Head and Strawberry (Hyung Jin Nim)
• The House of Harmony (Hyung Jin Nim)
• Testimonies of True Children

Content:
A Seminar in which you can explore relationship skills and practice how to experience more heart and happiness in your relationship. These skills be taken home and used to nurture a new way of understanding each other. You can gain a glimpse of how your past may be interfering in your present relationship, and how to deal better with those emotional barriers. Also learn about 5 Love Languages, and the differences between men and women in a very Principled-friendly way. Understand you and your spouse better!

Planned workshops:
Seminar in Frankfurt, Germany: 25-27 June 2010
Seminar in Munich or Stuttgart/ Germany: 5-7 November 2010
Registration: Ana Schmidt, Email: ana_labarga@hotmail.com

Content:

Day 1:

• Gender differences in Communication
• Discussing sensitive issues so they get solved without hurting the relationship
• Healthy partnering communication strategies
• Solving long standing issues once and for all.

Day 2:

• Learning about each other's love buttons
• Developing dating, friendship, and romantic anniversaries
• Developing your romance and sexuality

Content:

Day 1:

• Understanding the different relationship needs of husband's and wives
• Developing respect - the foundation stone for the quality of the relationship
• Re-discover how much you actually value each other

Day 2:

• Creating a couple vision statement
• Solve at least one long standing problem
• Developing your 'couple' team-player skills - what needs to developed next

Heart, the centre of the human personality
is a source of infinite energies. Most of the people however, live disconnected from these energies. No wonder that we so often face exhaustion, burn out and depression.
An average European uses approximately 10 – 15% of his brain’s capacity. As far as the heart is concerned, the percentage might be even less.

Living from the heart means

being connected to the desires, visions and energies of the heart

steering Emotion, Intellect and Will in line with the impulses of the Heart

employing the bodily capacities so that the desires of the heart become substantial

relating to various entities of the universe to contribute to their well-being

Leading a life of heart is a wondrous skill. It is probably the most exciting and fulfilling task in human life, to build up and practice that kind of ability.

Managing to live such a heart-centred life

a tremendous amount of energy is set free

continuous happiness and external success become reality

a genuine inner harmony and a new sensitivity toward life emerge.

As we continuously act guided by the impulses of the heart, we draw ever nearer to the point where life becomes sheer manifestation of the dreams and desires rooted in our hearts.

CHIP – Constellation of Heart-centred Inner Processes is the key method used in this seminar. CHIP is focused on making “visible” the interaction between Heart, Emotion, Intellect and Will proceeding in the human personality. Related to a certain behaviour or situation, CHIP-cards guide the participants to voice their thoughts and feelings and especially the desires of their hearts. After a connection with the heart and its energies is experienced, creative solutions or possible next steps start flowing in.

CHIP

was developed by Kurt Sattlberger, inspired by the View of Man as described in Unification Thought and by Nonviolent Communication (M. B. Rosenberg)

shows how Heart, Intellect, Emotion and Will interact in a certain situation, how we gain success or remain stuck in negative circumstances

encourages us to consciously use the faculties of Intellect, Emotion and Will according to the original design (Original Mind)

offers a most sensitive and effective way to convert trapped emotions and negative mindsets into helpful means to fulfil the desires of the heart

allows to experience how our energy is transformed and recharged when we succeed to connect with our hearts – especially under heavy or uncomfortable conditions.

helps us to draw on the power of our hearts when dealing with everyday life issues

instigates creative solutions which support the fulfilment of the desires of our hearts

Lasting Effect
Besides CHIP we are using meditations, reading of sacred texts, breathing exercises and movements as well as empathic listening to create an atmosphere where all feel free to tackle the issues of their heart. Individual affirmations stated in connection with breathing exercises enable us to stay in touch with our hearts even after the seminar.

Planned workshops:

11. - 13. June 2010, Austria
Autumn 2010, Austria
Language: German

About Marjorie and the workshop:
Marjorie is a certified Couples Therapist and mostly likes to work in private sessions with couples. She uses her seminars to teach the principles she works with, and after each workshop couples will receive a free 2 hour session.

Planned workshops:
Czech - 8th and 9th March
Germany/Nürnberg - 29th and 30th March
Irland/Dublin - 12th and 13th April

for couples or singles, including individual systemic counselling

Content
We live our lives in the context of relationships. Relationships happen in family systems, in working teams, in schools, in religious organisations, everywhere, in complex and changing positions related to those, who inhabited our physical, emotional and mental space.

Relationships are not easy to establish and often we are left with emotional wounds, as a result of the character diversity of human nature. Quarrels, break-downs, desunity in family or working systems can affect our emotional development and keep us stagnated, entangled, for many years.

Much of the information in the universe is encoded in patterns, that define the species. Identically, family and working systems develop their own patterns, the so called system- culture, acquired, maintained and passed on from generation through generation. These specific patterns keep us bond and identify us to that particular system. However they can grip on us when it comes to taking or allowing changes into one's life.

These Healing Seminars enable us to heal the emotional wounds carried on from our childhood or from our present situation, allowing us to uncover the roots and nature of the dysfunction. Gaining access to the unused knowledge that is unconsciously stored in our minds and bodies, i.e. through meditation and the systemic constellations, we learn how to develop an inner wisdom unavoidable to leading a successful and joyful life.

Healing Seminars also enhance our understanding of one's own place in the larger systems that make up our daily life, providing us the skills and selfawareness to break down disturbing patterns, raise self-esteem, achieve mind and body unity and ultimately allow the healthy flow of love.

What happens in a Family Constellation workshop/seminar?
Apart from the many exercises I facilitate in the workshop, which help us to look at ourselves in the context of our family systems, the main methode is the family constellation.
The family system has a conscience, which demands that a certain order and the application of particular laws, which operate within the system, are respected. These laws have nothing to do with right or wrong but with emotional bonding between family members. The two main ones are the equal right each family member has to belong to their family system and an hierarchy in terms of time.
When we by-pass these laws the consequences can be felt by individuals in subsequent generations without their having any awareness of why they feel the way they do. This way our Second Generation is affected by many of the unresolved issues, which we parents are not aware of or did not yet have the chance to heal.
These feelings can be manifested by depression, addictions, mental or physical illness, infertility, difficulty in maintaining long term relationships, etc.

When I facilitate a family constellation I ask the participant about his personal situation and unresolved issues, then ask him to choose representatives from the group. These representatives are placed intuitively in the middle of the room by the participant. Slowly they begin to feel sensations in their bodies and by listening to those feelings and going in relationship with other representatives, they show the picture and uncover dynamics of the system they represent. This gives us the chance to have a new perspective and realize many things we had not known or seen before. It is then possible to move towards a solution, to heal with family members through healing sentences and rituals, which are offered to help to open the heart and allow the energy of love to flow.

Very often, the effects of a constellation are immediate and even felt by family members who were not present at the workshop. Sometimes they feel and act differently or someone, who had been dettached makes contact with the family after a long absence. Sometimes there is no dramatic effect at all but a gradual change in the family dynamics can be experienced with individuals feeling more at peace, family difficulties beginning to improve, parents and children harmonizing with each other...
When the central figure in the constellation takes responsibility for his emotions and is willing to improve the whole system is positively affected and automatically a change takes place.

In these workshops, the contents of each family constellation remain within the group of participants. We all commit ourselves to not pass on information which lead to disclosure of participants by signing an agreement required to attend the workshop.

Methods

• Meditation (also with the Inner-child)
• QLB (Quantum-Light-Breath)
• Exercises, Affirmations and other valuable steps (i.e. NLP) to mobilize and strengthen one's own healing energy
• Voice Dialogue
• Family constellations

Planned workshops:

11 - 13 June 2010, Seminar in Madrid, Spain (in English)
Contact Person in Madrid: Mercedes Gonzales Tomita, Email: maria_de_las_mercedesg@hotmail.com
8 - 10 October 2010, Seminar in Gaflenz, Austria (in German)
29 - 31 October 2010, Seminar in London (UK) (in English)

Skype Sessions: For families or individuals from abroad, there is a possibility for councelling sessions on weekends
Skype: lubelia.msrp